Sorry for the confusion between Solar & Solaar.

However, what cannot and should not be confused is this…the actions of the hospital staff as it relates to immediate family. They are the only individual(s) that have access to a patient UNLESS directed otherwise by said individual (in writing and in some instances verbally).

I come from a very huge family (mother is 1 of 14, dad 1 of with a lot of cousins, aunts, uncles, etc. When my father had open heart surgery, my cousins woud sign into the CC unit as his sons/daughters and we would always have someone downstairs to instruct family on how to sign in.

I could care less what the various sites are saying & who is quoting what – its the resulting actions of the hospital & family members that are so telling & informative. Their actions SUGGEST that GURU had an advance directive for medical decisions in place.

“Truth is truth, whether or not you like me…” KRSOne

The problem with what your saying is none of these sites reporting (allhiphop or hiphopdx) have seen Guru, the are basing these quotes off press releases. Just be cynical for second. How can someone who just got out of massive surgery like this be informed on all the rumors going around, think about & then make a comment on it? It’s just unrealistic. My point on Foxxx was that he spoke to Solar’s manipulation power and has seen what this guy has done to Guru. Now I understand that Guru is a grown man but there can still be something wrong with how he’s handle this by giving this dude such power. His family having to hit up Solar on twitter for information? That’s terrible!

Now whether or not that is a fabrication on Solars part is another matter.
The way media and language works is When something is written in quotations and in first person we can only assume it has been reiterated by Solar from the source being GURU.
Any other speculation from you is wrong and irresponsible.
If his family doesn’t know why the fuck would freddie foxx have a clue?
And lastly i don’t know where my last message allowed you to presume i didn’t know the difference between a french mc and a producer

BTW this is not MC Solaar from France, they are two different people.

1) the actions of the hospital & staff
2) the nephew’s comments
3) the family’s inability to still see him

Unfortunately, this is another one of those depressingly hard “teachable moments” that we all need to pay heed to and address ASAP. Don’t leave your family & love ones to guess about what you intend for them to do as it relates to your medical &/or funeral intentions – get a living will and or advance directives for medical decisions done while you are of sound mind & body. If you don’t then you will facilitate the disharmony & hatred that tears families apart when they should be coming together.

My wife’s family had to learn this lesson the hard way – despite wise counsel prior to said tragedy. Don’t let it happen to your family.

More importantly, before we jump the gun & judge Solaar, the question that has to be asked is “WHY” GURU would restrict his family in this manner? This obstensibly begets the question whose rights are paramount – the patient’s or the family. This has always been one of the major impetus for a gay marriage bill, because familys ostracize same sex partners during medical crisises when such a law is not in place; this however is the flip side of that equation – the lawyer, or gay partner, or business partner has the authority, not the family. PLEASE NOTE that this is not to imply a same-sex relationship between GURU & Solaar but to illustrate how preparation over one’s medical, financial, burial wishes can be misunderstood &/or abused after the fact when not properly communicated upfront to all parties involved.

There are 4 sides to every story:
1) side A
2) side B
3) the truth
4) and the listener’s perception of what they’ve heard

My prayers go out to everyone involved BUT first & foremost to GURU’s healthy return! At that time, hopefully we will all have a greater understanding as to why/how this medical crisis was mishandled. I pray to GOD that all of Solaar’s actions have been at the behest of GURU because if not then…

This clown ruined Guru’s music & now he’s trying to ruin Guru’s life.